Objectives
By the end of this module you will be able to:
- Apply the four steps of this program.
- Screen your own assumptions about who grieves.
- Create inclusive rituals and policies.
- Connect people to tailored support.
Lesson
See, Validate, Include, Connect
See losses others may miss. Validate them with clear acknowledgment. Include overlooked mourners in rituals, groups, and conversations. Connect people with support that fits their specific loss.
Checking assumptions
Practitioners also carry assumptions about whose grief counts. Ask open questions about relationships and losses, and avoid assuming family structure, relationship type, or the meaning of a loss.
Inclusive practice
Use intake forms and language that allow people to name any important relationship. Offer groups or resources for overlooked losses. Make crisis resources visible, including 988 and 911.
GGN practiceInclusion audit (about 15 minutes)
Review one form, flyer, or welcome message you use. Note any words that assume a type of relationship or loss. Rewrite them to be inclusive. If this brings up pain, pause and reach out to someone you trust, or call or text 988.
Fictional storyFictional Story 6.1: The intake form
Rafael noticed his grief group intake form asked only about deaths of spouses, parents, and children. A participant grieving a close friend wrote, I was not sure I belonged here.
Questions to consider:
- What could Rafael change?
- How would this help?
Discussion: Rafael could change the form to ask, Who have you lost and what were they to you? This would signal that every relationship and loss is welcome.
Reflection Prompts
- Whose grief might your practice overlook?
- What would make your space more inclusive?
- Which resources for specific losses could you gather?
