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Module 2 of 6

Emotional Capacity and the Body

About 1 hour

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Lessons in this module
  1. A full cup
  2. Signs of depletion
  3. Gentle practices

Objectives

By the end of this module you will be able to:

Lesson

A full cup

Think of emotional capacity as a cup. Each loss pours something in. Without time and support to empty it, the cup can overflow. Small stresses may then feel overwhelming.

Signs of depletion

People may notice exhaustion, trouble sleeping, getting sick more often, irritability, trouble concentrating, feeling numb, or pulling away from people and activities.

Gentle practices

Simple practices can help: slow breathing with longer exhales, short walks, regular meals, rest, and moments of quiet. These do not erase grief but can help the body recover some capacity. If exhaustion, hopelessness, or thoughts of suicide grow, connect with a licensed mental health professional, call or text 988, or call 911 for immediate danger.

GGN reminder: Rest is not a luxury when you are grieving many losses. It is part of healing.
GGN practiceEmptying the cup (about 10 minutes)

List three things that drain your energy and three things that restore it, even a little. Choose one restoring activity to do today. If this brings up pain, pause and reach out to someone you trust, or call or text 988.

Fictional storyFictional Story 2.1: Snapping at small things

After several losses, Luis noticed he was snapping at his kids over small things and struggling to sleep. He felt ashamed. A friend suggested that his cup might be full.

Questions to consider:

  1. How might the cup image help Luis?
  2. What could he try?

Discussion: The image helps Luis see his reactions as signs of overload rather than failure. He could try more rest, short walks, and asking a friend to help with practical tasks.

Reflection Prompts

  1. How full does your cup feel right now?
  2. What signs tell you that your capacity is low?
  3. What restores you?

Module 2 Quiz

Choose one answer per question, then check your answers. You need 4 of 5 correct to pass, and every critical item must be correct. You can retake it any time.